Talk:Sejuani/@comment-7633726-20130408051149/@comment-7633726-20130410182614

In my experience, few men actually want the skinny girl with boobs. My roommate, and my boyfriend both, like bigger women. There is a psychological reason as to why 'most' men like bigger women though. Bigger women 'generally' have more food, and everyone knows that men love food and sex, so what better to have than both? Women generally yes, like tall men, but women also generally like men who have money, or the potential for money. (I'm taking a psychology class on this stuff, so don't think I'm just pulling this out of my ass.) So women, not all women, but a lot of women, are unconciously gold diggers, they just don't go out of their way for it. I find that rather funny, because I fit that. My boyfriend wants to be a pediatrician, so he'll be making a pretty big salary. Women, and again, I fall into this too, have this obsession with being pretty in their eyes as well as most other people's, which is why, in a lot of ways, media is unhealthy and can lead to things like anorexia and bulemia. However, most women don't have these health issues, and, while not perfectly happy with their body, are happy enough to not hurt themselves in that way. I honestly think that, while sometimes the media is a bad influence because of their stereotypes of how women should look, (and this does hold true for men too, so don't think I'm trying to be sexist by excluding men) at the same time, people need to be strong enough to resist what's 'expected' of their looks by society. I personally don't feel I'm very pretty, but I'm not going to force myself into really unhealthy habits just to 'look and feel prettier' when in fact, they lower self esteem and therefore don't make women feel prettier.

I'm sorry, I just realized how long this was..... >.> ... <.< .... Sorry lol