Talk:Vayne/@comment-218.108.168.144-20120729194744

You know Doc lets get back to your Anxiety question. I think the User sets up a false poivtsie situation most users start using when young and the stress of fitting in socially is greater so when they try drugs or alcohol for the first time it becomes the holy Grail of Social behavior it reduces the anxiety so they keep using and the cycle starts. Now fast forward X years when there lives have become unmanageable and they need to clean up and bang the anxiety kicks in in spades and they have no social skills for handling it because they never learned that skill set. That's one of the reasons A/A works so well it teaches social maturity through the 12 steps. Hell in my case even with two years of sobriety if I drink to much coffee my Addict starts yammering for a fix because I'm out of my so called comfort zone.