User blog comment:Steelside/Trying to Make This Not Sound Gay/@comment-4814368-20120615201042/@comment-96.248.250.80-20120615225808

it's offensive maybe because it's being associated that his situation is "lame" or rather "undesirable", and he substitutes the word "gay" in for it. I don't believe it was meant to offend anyone but, I personally dislike that "gay" is being substituted for something negatively connotated. It's like saying something like that is so "conservative", or that is so "liberal". It comes with negative subtleties that are offensive, whether or not they were intended to be. The audience always likes jumping the conclusion gun when it comes to articles or literature for tha matter.